Re: you know what's astonishing?
[QUOTE]^Then I wasn't being clear. My belief was that these men were not too different from me[/QUOTE]
great, now where did this belief come from? did you grow up over there or did you just imagine that they must not be too different from you?
[QUOTE] but after having gotten to know them a little bit better[/QUOTE]
meaning you spent time with them over there or over here correct? or did you get to know them better thru the mainstream media?
[QUOTE]I recognized patters that indicate that they were raised very different from not only me, but different from most young men in the world. [/QUOTE]
Interesting, what paterns exactly did you recognize? and how do you know how most young men in the world are raised? Is this an assumption on your part or do you really know how most young people are raised?
[QUOTE]I think he means something ground braking...such as that you will not be a top athlete with super model wife and a billion in the bank...or the whole society we live in is geared towards creating retarded idiots that will buy shit they don't need going into debt and becoming dependable slaves of the system they will not question out of fear for their employment... Or maybe I don't understand? [/QUOTE]
i meant any and all beliefs, is it not somehow high and mighty of ourself to believe ANY ideal we have is original? i mean there is 6 billion people on the planet, and god knows how many before the current crop thats on this rock now.
Only when we can understand that most our beliefs are not only passed down to us, but they are also wrong for a number of reasons. In order to rid yourself of these blinders(cause we see everything thru our belief glasses), you have to sit down, identifiy all your beliefs and then search yourself for why you believe these things, when you started believing them, and if they still hold true or not.
It's a very well stated fact that people with preconceived notions about a subject will not listen to any different info on the subject if it goes against their beliefs, no matter if the new info is fact or not.
[QUOTE]According to cognitive dissonance theory, there is a tendency for individuals to seek consistency among their cognitions (i.e., beliefs, opinions). [/QUOTE]
[QUOTE]Dissonance theory applies to all situations involving attitude formation and change. It is especially relevant to decision-making and problem-solving. [/QUOTE]
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