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How often do you have Random T**ugh,s

8670 durable postsStarted 2009-04-18Latest 2019-05-03
#1739472Post 7801 of 8670

Re: Random T**ugh,s

Sbando, when you were making good money back in the day before the economy crashed or whatever, you never really complained about being unhappy. I'm wondering, were you just hiding it back then or has it been exacerbated by losing money, job, friends or whatever. I mean how much of this is situational and how much of it is biological? I always wonder that when I see a friend in agony going through depression. Are you bipolar? I've been learning alot about what that is like. Also, do you have a therapist you really like? That made a huge difference in a friend of mines life. It made all the difference actually. What is your routine like? We are also all victims of our habits that we create, for better or for worse. Good luck mate, please don't look for the answers on MS, they won't be here reallly, well maybe a little. Get help from trained professionals please.

#1739477Post 7802 of 8670

Re: Random T**ugh,s

[URL="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZl3ohphHSE"]a pretty good discussion[/URL]

#1739480Post 7803 of 8670

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[QUOTE=sbando;1152916]go take a walk

I'm way passed that. Bed-ridden for months.[/QUOTE]

How serious is that 'bed-ridden' situation? Can you stand up? Can you walk? If so, it's a chance to improve your health, just by walking some more. Walking makes the leg bones and muscles stronger so that walking will be easier next time. It also lowers the blood-pressure, and ofcourse if you walk outside you also get some daylight/sunlight which is also very important.

If walking is really not possible for you then maybe swimming is an option to make the body stronger & healthier, or just some exercises on a daily basis to strengthen your legs? I don't know, I just have a feeling that it's very important to get out of the bed-ridden situation, if it's possible. I don't know what else to say...

Try to keep hope, and I'm wishing you all the strength in the world sbando.

#1739553Post 7804 of 8670

Re: Random thoughts

Midge ure looks like a milk thief

#1739561Post 7805 of 8670

Re: Random T**ugh,s

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#1739562Post 7806 of 8670

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#1739570Post 7807 of 8670

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#1739571Post 7808 of 8670

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#1739576Post 7809 of 8670

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Some very uninformed amateurish psychology happening here. If you're not qualified, pipe down

#1739578Post 7810 of 8670

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[QUOTE=slothful bi;1155939]Some very uninformed amateurish psychology happening here. If you're not qualified, pipe down[/QUOTE] :Respect::Respect::Respect:

#1739620Post 7811 of 8670

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Yeah, stay on the safe side and do not try anything to help..

What's the alternative, waiting for miracles? At least some people do care.

#1739641Post 7812 of 8670

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^^^ You think giving ill informed, unqualified advice is caring. ?? It's pretty obvious the "helping" really isn't . Yes, some do care, but we have enough sense to realise that we can do more damage than good .

#1739648Post 7813 of 8670

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[QUOTE=DIDI;1156041]It's pretty obvious the "helping" really isn't . [/QUOTE]

Don't follow my advise sbando, didi already knows it will do no good.

#1739651Post 7814 of 8670

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^^^ I was referencing slothful bi's post re amateurish psychology, perhaps I should have made myself clearer.

#1739652Post 7815 of 8670

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I probably shared too much. I shared it for myself but I know some of you really care.

Flori, depression works like this:

It plants a seed when you're a teen, following some event. The seed stays dormant for years, even decades. Then some traumatic event happens: you lose a dear one (or even your pet). Depression takes over Depression is a mental disease, not a "state of mind", "sadness" or introversion. I'm a bipolar, so I have days of hyperactivity. Kurt Cobain was or is the poster boy for the bipolar disorder.

#1739655Post 7816 of 8670

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[QUOTE=barski;1156054]Don't follow my advise sbando, didi already knows it will do no good.[/QUOTE]

It's not that anybody KNOWS it will do no good, it may do.. But there's a chance it could make things worse so can be a dangerous game jumping in if you're not qualified to do so..

People study and qualify in this area for good reason.

If a friend or family member needs heart surgery what do you do? Offer them support? Be around when they need you? Help out where you can? Reassure them if need be?

You don't do the surgery yourself

#1739670Post 7817 of 8670

Re: Random T**ugh,s

Someone could have attached jingle bells to my feet and told me I was born with them; then I go around believing it & telling the story how I was born with jingle bells on my feet. Until someone else comes along and says that's ridiculous & shows me how to cut the bells off, I could be "attached" (literally or figuratively) to that perceived reality my whole life & it could be really harmful.

If helpful and empowering, some beliefs (or attachments to particular concepts) are valuable. When they're limiting, devaluing, hurtful, and really useless, attaching meaning to perceptions and beliefs is dangerous, imo. Our world is full of cultures with wacky ideas that justify hurting ourselves or others through beliefs/ideas. It's all just conditioning.

One of my fav quotes: [I] "Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." -[/I]Voltaire Beliefs, definitions of things, conclusions of oneself.... are all powerful with power to harm or help... or they are meaningless.

Sometimes people need a way to define their own emotional map (e.g., "these are the peaks, here are the valleys, this is why," etc.) and that helps them for awhile, or medication helps. Nothing wrong with that..... until it's no longer helpful. Then it's time to open up & expand your mind/views... seek out the help you need.

I've found there are just as many (if not more) wacked out/hurtful professionals with MDs and PhDs as there are good ones.

#1739853Post 7818 of 8670

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sbando, I hope today is a better day for you

Just got round to reading this

#1739855Post 7819 of 8670

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Este sabado llegamos al Resident 200, con una hora de mi set en Budapest la semana pasada.

This saturday we reach Resident 200, with one hour from my set in Budapest last weekend.

#1739868Post 7820 of 8670

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^Great! Share.

#1739943Post 7821 of 8670

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[QUOTE=AchtungBaby!;1156407]Este sabado llegamos al Resident 200, con una hora de mi set en Budapest la semana pasada.

This saturday we reach Resident 200, with one hour from my set in Budapest last weekend.[/QUOTE]

Fuck yes!

#1739944Post 7822 of 8670

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For the love of me... i can feel this vibe... geez.. fuck the world

#1739945Post 7823 of 8670

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Great now im going to watch a movie with my wife... gosh.

Thanks Hernan though 8)

#1740179Post 7824 of 8670

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Back from my trip to Europe -- amazing time spent in Paris and Rome with the Missus. Can't say I enjoyed the 11 + 1 hour flights back to the states, but of course more than well worth the time spent traveling. Paris was incredible, I found the people to be very kind and helpful, nothing like the rumors I had heard. Highlights were riding bikes around the entire city and night, Notre Dame at night, and the best damn ice cream I've ever had on the little island near Notre Dame. Palace of Versailles and of course the Lourve. Was also cool to see Fashion Week happening, the weather was actually perfect, no rain and no humidity in either cities. Can hardly wait to return to Paris.... didn't get to make it to Concrete, I was super bummed about that, my wife just was not up for it. Travel takes a lot out of her and I am of course sensitive to that, so that's that. Rome I felt like we didn't even get to really scratch the surface of the culture their, but the food was great and people were very friendly and warm there. Got some incredible photos and videos - will share some soon.

#1740185Post 7825 of 8670

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Just got back from an incredible journey to Antigua + Village of Santa Cruze/Lake Atitlan in Guatemala. I don't think it's possible to go there and not come back a changed person. The Guatemalan and Mayan people are amazing.

As for the country itself...beautiful-

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#1740191Post 7826 of 8670

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^how was the food? what did you eat? what was the exchange rate, how long were you there? Did your wife go? nice pics :)

#1740195Post 7827 of 8670

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^ lol, shud have just went with him

nice pics man

#1740196Post 7828 of 8670

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how was your trip to paris fo? did your wife go with you? what did you eat? did you see the eiffel tower? did you go to the louvre? how about rex club? did you take your camera?

errrr pics or stfu

#1740197Post 7829 of 8670

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:lol:

#1740199Post 7830 of 8670

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[QUOTE=trick12;1157054]^ lol, shud have just went with him[/QUOTE]

:lol:

#1740212Post 7831 of 8670

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A moment of clarity before bed. Tomorrow morning the illusion of life again. But there's no healing, no human touch, no happy ending. Just going through the motions.Till the next enlightenment will suggest you that it's probably time to leave.

#1740293Post 7832 of 8670

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[QUOTE=floridaorange;1157045]what did you eat?[/QUOTE]

mushrooms. party on, wayne.

#1740323Post 7833 of 8670

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:lol: party on garth

#1740326Post 7834 of 8670

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....the more things stay the same

#1740380Post 7835 of 8670

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Peace out to the genuinely nice people here.

Everyone has issues; I've dealt with mine. Some lines won't be crossed & I've reached mine. Deal with you own sh*t, please.

#1740457Post 7836 of 8670

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[URL="https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201212/one-thing-will-ruin-perfectly-good-relationship?utm_source=FacebookPost&utm_medium=FBPost&utm_campaign=FBPost"]One Thing That Will Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship | Psychology Today[/URL]

#1740471Post 7837 of 8670

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A request is not a criticism. Hurt & disappointment are valid, not criticizing. Communication of feelings is healthy, criticism is unhealthy. Controlling thru passive aggression is damaging; expression of feelings, desires, needs with acceptance build a bond.

Asking someone to deal with hurtful issues is a healthy request.

Have a great day.

#1740474Post 7838 of 8670

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This is all bullshit anyway and I don't need it; don't even want the music anymore, certainly not smoke & mirrors, egos & aggressiveness, no wonder there's no women here.

One less

#1740478Post 7839 of 8670

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Where are you?

#1740480Post 7840 of 8670

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[QUOTE=audrey_w;1157506]Where are you?[/QUOTE] If you're addressing me, I'm in FL on vacation right now Audrey, things are being clarified.

Vacations will do that.

There's really no point to this any longer, I can see that clearly. Assume whatever...idc

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