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Di, I hope whoever was doing it pulls their head in.

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I was nearly sick reading this post. It saddens me to think anyone on this forum could result to such behavior. We have without doubt the best forum in the Internet and we have that because of the positive contributions made by most of our members.I know its a tough call on how to deal with this sort of situation because we can obviously ban the user from this site but that doesn't stop ramifications on other forums and that is out of our control. Don't ever be ashamed how old you are, there are quite a few of us on this board who are getting on a bit and age isn't a boundary of something you love. My girlfriend thinks I should of grown out of my love for this sort of music but you don't stop loving something just because you get older.

And i thought superwave was the only stalker on this forum:roll:

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Hey girl, sorry I havn't been on sooner to show my support for your HUGE contribution you bring to this forum. Being one of the older (age wise that is) on the forum I have always found your comments informative and supported by facts because often or not you have been at the gig etc. I hope this guy stops and gets a bit of a wake up call from this thread. Know you have my (and from what I have read in this thread) a lot of others support in this hard and difficult time.

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PM me a name didi

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I'm sorry to hear that's happening to you DIDI. :(

Hope the scumbag smartens up or leaves.

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[quote=chunky;776816]I was nearly sick reading this post. It saddens me to think anyone on this forum could result to such behavior. We have without doubt the best forum in the Internet and we have that because of the positive contributions made by most of our members.I know its a tough call on how to deal with this sort of situation because we can obviously ban the user from this site but that doesn't stop ramifications on other forums and that is out of our control. Don't ever be ashamed how old you are, there are quite a few of us on this board who are getting on a bit and age isn't a boundary of something you love. My girlfriend thinks I should of grown out of my love for this sort of music but you don't stop loving something just because you get older.

And i thought superwave was the only stalker on this forum:roll:[/quote]

Well said Chris, my wife and oldest daughter think it's weird too. But can't imagine not listening to edm. And sorry to hear bout this Didi, it's troubling to say the least. Don't always agree with ya but you're contributions here are defo appreciated. Our ages. races, sexual orientation, etc should be totally irrelevant. It's about the music and that's why i love this place so much. Plus us older ones should be more open minded right? With all this time we've spent on the planet:p:lol:

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Sorry Didi I will leave you alone now..

Finally people on the board hate someone more than me..:lol::lol: whoever you are, you are fucked up..

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[IMG]http://blog.spout.com/wp-content/uploads/clue-2.jpg[/IMG]

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it's probably because you're from australia

[IMG]http://images.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/4/47/Australia_Map.jpg[/IMG]

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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g8_verVqzbQ[/youtube]

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[QUOTE=chunky;776816]And i thought superwave was the only stalker on this forum:roll:[/QUOTE]

rofl, :lol:

good luck with it all Didi !!

whoever it is needs some serious psych time, stalking is just not right.. :(

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I'm pretty blown away by the support here :) . Thank you all. But what I think I love most is that we can laugh. I keep saying this MS, is my happy place. :D We don't have to agree but on the whole there is respect for others opinions.

Simonr, the scenerio you describe is exactly what I would like to happen.

Btw being opinionated is not an age thing , I've always been opinionated !! :lol:

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I never knew you were a girl, until I read this thread. :shock::o:

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you're being far too nice. post his name so we can have some words.

seriously. guy is done here. people who pull shit like that are not welcome in MS land. ever.

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I'm not being too nice !! I am doing what I think is the best way to get the result I want. All I want is to be able to enjoy my time here. What I don't want is a situation where people feel compelled to take sides and that ALWAYS happens !! People will have had very different experiences to me with this person. And we all respond to the way we relate to other people. Mine was bad, others will have been good. This is just human nature.

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DD you are clearly showing who is the more mature one from this situation, respect for the way you're handling it. The freak doesn't deserve the favour you're doing him.

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Most members on MS will debate/discuss certain issues in a mature and repectfull manner. This is the main reason why we all keep coming back. I'ts very hard to find a forum with such well behaved members such as MS. Also great to see fellow MS members come out in full support of Didi. :)

It's upsetting and really sad to hear this happen to you Didi. I'm very pleased with the way you have handled it.

I really do hope that the piece shit that has been harrasing you, pulls his head in and realises that his despicable behaviour will not be tolerated.

Keep ya head up Didi. :D

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[QUOTE=DIDI;776915]I'm not being too nice !! I am doing what I think is the best way to get the result I want. All I want is to be able to enjoy my time here. What I don't want is a situation where people feel compelled to take sides and that ALWAYS happens !! People will have had very different experiences to me with this person. And we all respond to the way we relate to other people. Mine was bad, others will have been good. This is just human nature.[/QUOTE]

its not just about that though, we need to not have someone around here who could do that with another member of the board. its not excusable behavior at all. people who don't see this type of behavior as wrong are not likely to change.

please post his name!

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I think from here on any names to be given should be between DD and the mods. We don't need a lynching, besides the freak can always come back and register a new username.

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Not going to happen !!

Aside from anything else this person is capable of being perfectly charming and I would rather encourage that!! :) We all have good and bad sides and they differ from time to time.

Hey, maybe we do get wiser with age. :lol:

Oh and fyrestarter, that map is inaccurate. Danny Minogue is from Melbourne :( :lol:

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[QUOTE=feather;776931]I think from here on any names to be given should be between DD and the mods. We don't need a lynching, besides the freak can always come back and register a new username.[/QUOTE]

public shame works wonders. i have no sympathy for this individual at all. call it hard ass, but i've been around msg boards a loooong time and seen stuff like this before. it needs to be dealt with decisively and in a manner that will prevent it from happening again.

its fine if it stays between didi and the mods i suppose, but it would ease my mind if i knew the person was banned and called out for being the douche that he is.

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[QUOTE=chunky;776816]I was nearly sick reading this post. It saddens me to think anyone on this forum could result to such behavior. [/QUOTE]

Me too, I am the oldest sibling with 2 little sisters, if some pos made one of my sisters feel unsafe by bullying and threatening them online, I would FLIP! Hope this coward is long gone by now.

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Well if u wont post his name maybe i will.... But having said that i dont want this person to leave either .

and the person is me. Sorry DIDI

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edit

Seriously not something to joke about imo

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No it's not him . You just beat me posting this. :)

Don't joke, someone might take you seriously :lol:

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I hope you're kidding Johns...

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[quote=clintlove;776985]I hope you're kidding Johns...[/quote] He is :)

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[IMG]http://cordweekly.com/bank/Image/stalker-8.jpg[/IMG]

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oh damn it i missed all the reply's .. what did u edit DQ? DIDI stop covering for me. tell em

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Not funny Johns.

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alright alright :)

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wow... that is fucking wack.

Di, i'll reserve what i have to say for a pm, but you know you have my full support on this -- without question.

it's striking how obvious that threat is though. if it's the same person we've both had numerous issues with in the past, then i do hope it gets resolved swiftly, and in the right way.

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we could just figure out who usually posts and who hasn't posted in here. By process of elimination I'm sure we could figure it out.

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^He certainly deviated from what most of us would consider normative behavior to be.

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So Didi or didn't he?

[IMG]http://dallasvintageshop.com/wp-content/uploads/Image/sherlock_holmes_outfit.jpg[/IMG]

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can we held or own investigation on the matter, Mr. Holmes ?

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an e-vestigation that is

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I don't think there is anything left to investigate. The person responsible knows who they are and there is nothing to be benefited to by organizing a witch hunt. I know some people have posted who they suspect it is and posts have been removed or edited. Please don't post names of board members as this could be very damaging.

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but for the board sake it will be good to get a notification that the matter has been handled by the mods

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[quote=chunky;777068]I don't think there is anything left to investigate. The person responsible knows who they are and there is nothing to be benefited to by organizing a witch. I know some people have posted who they suspect it is and posts have been removed or edited. Please don't post names of board members as this could be very damaging.[/quote]

Agreed!

However I might add that I am slightly curious :p