Re: His life story
^ i concur sir.
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Re: His life story
^ i concur sir.
Re: His life story
It does seem to be an ongoing problem.
Re: Shiva's life story
[QUOTE=Kamal;758691]and to this day they haven't succeeded[/QUOTE]r There would have to be something to find :lol:
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[url]http://www.newsweek.com/id/102350[/url]
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[quote=feather;758932]I'm gonna come right out and say this: Any thread revolving looks, sex, beauty, Shiva--turns into what we have here. There is always some sort of miscommunication mis-translation going on. It's clear she has different perceptions on these issues from most of us, and I think it's a fine example of the point rainman raised.[/quote]
^ Yes, many times we do have miscommunications...sort of normal I think coz we all come from different cultures...many times i donno if someone is joking or not.
But plz feather, don't make me seem the one "different", with different perceptions "from most of us" thing and all that coz I have never asked for anyone to open threads about me nor expect any compliments from anybody, but they simply keep on coming, and I cant control what people say or type. I don't like to be blamed like that...for doing what??? for being who I am??! A recent example, whats this?!
[IMG]http://i173.photobucket.com/albums/w50/Shiva_Leb/shivz2.jpg[/IMG]
I don't see the name "feather" in the highlights... Did I ask for it?!! Do I need it??!!! I shouldn't be blamed like that, blamed for what others do, or for what I am or for how I look...that type of attitude is not fair, it is not square! Some users wana make jokes, and I go along with it; after all we are here for fun. But i don't accept to have fun at my expense (coz I could act/react differently trust me).
Another point: the subject was almost cleared & closed....but it just got re-opened, u just did, why feather?! Why is there a need to point me out and then sort of blame me for it...?!
[quote=DIDI;758952]It does seem to be an ongoing problem.[/quote]
For me there is no problem but it seems many do have problems... I didn't ask to be put at the center of the attentions, but someone keeps on doing it.
Re: But if we started dating it would ruin our friendship...
[img]http://picklemonkey.net/stored/headbash.gif[/img]
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[quote=Shiva;759179]^ Yes, many times we do have miscommunications...sort of normal I think coz we all come from different cultures...many times i donno if someone is joking or not.
But plz feather, don't make me seem the one "different", with different perceptions "from most of us" thing and all that coz I have never asked for anyone to open threads about me nor expect any compliments from anybody, but they simply keep on coming, and I cant control what people say or type. I don't like to be blamed like that...for doing what??? for being who I am??! A recent example, whats this?!
[IMG]http://i173.photobucket.com/albums/w50/Shiva_Leb/shivz2.jpg[/IMG]
I don't see the name "feather" in the highlights... Did I ask for it?!! Do I need it??!!! I shouldn't be blamed like that, blamed for what others do, or for what I am or for how I look...that type of attitude is not fair, it is not square! Some users wana make jokes, and I go along with it; after all we are here for fun. But i don't accept to have fun at my expense (coz I could act/react differently trust me).
Another point: the subject was almost cleared & closed....but it just got re-opened, u just did, why feather?! Why is there a need to point me out and then sort of blame me for it...?!
For me there is no problem but it seems many do have problems... I didn't ask to be put at the center of the attentions, but someone keeps on doing it.[/quote]
you do kind of encourage those kinds of posts... i remember when we had that banner with random photos and most of the time 3/5 of the pictures were of you, posted by you... lol it has gone down a lot in recent months because people are starting to post pictures though =p
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:lol: @ this thread
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Wow.. just read this entire thread.. very very entertaining to say the least. this is a perfect example of 'twilight zone' :D
I don't even want to know what kinds of other mischief picklemonkey can get up too... lol
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[quote=ddr;759214]you do kind of encourage those kinds of posts... i remember when we had that banner with random photos and most of the time 3/5 of the pictures were of you, posted by you... lol it has gone down a lot in recent months because people are starting to post pictures though =p[/quote]
Well yes, I post pix just like anybody else...few things on [MS] were encouraged by my behavior, of which the whole "random pix" idea that u have on the main page. I see this as something positive, the forum evolved...and still is.
It is good to have most users post their pix, that was the aim. I wasnt very comfortable with the fact of having 3/5 pix to be of me on the main page, but it did the effect we expected it to do: encourage others to post pix. The idea materialized successfully, and in fact the forum looks more alive since then.
If a user wants to see my pix he knows where to find them...
[quote=dusk;759244]I don't even want to know what kinds of other mischief picklemonkey can get up too... lol[/quote]
He has his own ways of having fun from the backstage...and I got my eyes on him :p
Re: But if we started dating it would ruin our friendship...
[quote=picklemonkey;759211][IMG]http://picklemonkey.net/stored/headbash.gif[/IMG][/quote]
:roflmao:
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[quote=Shiva;759261]Well yes, I post pix just like anybody else...few things on [MS] were encouraged by my behavior, of which the whole "random pix" idea that u have on the main page. [/quote]
that is where i am getting at though.... sure a few face pics or everyday 'hello' type pictures are great but when you post "glamour/sexy poses" shots of yourself, especially if you are a good looking woman, you will get attention because of it.
Re: Shiva's life story
Stil had to react on this one:
[QUOTE=Shiva;758456]But on a personal note guys, if she doen't want to be with you (and act like a brother-sister type of deal), then she is not meant to be yours to begin with....and life goes on.[/QUOTE]
Totally true. Sometimes your system just takes longer to accept and proceed. Mine is taking very, very long this time.
@the rest: man that's funny...but let's face it. I'd leave Paris Hilton standing at the bar for any female that has something intelligent to say -looks are worth jack shit unless you're raving drunk and not able to have a decent convo yourself anyway (but in that case I could also hump my date's teddybear). Actually...I'd leave her standing there even if she were the only woman in the room. If there's one thing I can't stand it's dumb or fake people, no matter how beautiful they are. Or think they are.
Oh, and when old age has wrinkled a once smoothless skin, there can still be so much beauty. The skin is just part of the bigger equation that beauty is. How else do you explain falling madly in love with someone while there is many physically more attractive beings around than the one you chose? It's the sum of all that is in you that counts, the wrapping certainly helps but is definitely not the only decisive factor.
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[quote=Shiva;759179]^ Yes, many times we do have miscommunications...sort of normal I think coz we all come from different cultures...many times i donno if someone is joking or not.
But plz feather, don't make me seem the one "different", with different perceptions "from most of us" thing and all that
...
Another point: the subject was almost cleared & closed....but it just got re-opened, u just did, why feather?! Why is there a need to point me out and then sort of blame me for it...?!
[/quote]
I was simply pointing out that this is a recurring thing whenever the topic of looks, beauty, sex, and Shiva, comes together in a thread. Nothing to do with making fun of you or blaming you.
This whole thread and past thread of similar topics simply indicate you have a different outlook on these things. I am simply going out on a limb here and pointing that out. I will admit that this is presumptious, but perhaps your good looks and your vocation colours your perception of such issues, and this is further exacerbated by your obliviousness to what I'm trying to say here.
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[quote=ddr;759305]that is where i am getting at though.... sure a few face pics or everyday 'hello' type pictures are great but when you post "glamour/sexy poses" shots of yourself, especially if you are a good looking woman, you will get attention because of it.[/quote]
Yes. True. But the pix I posted on my profile (which are shown in the random pix section) are mostly modeling & djing pix. Now unlike most of you, I live in the middle-east, in a place where showing skin can be considered as something "offensive". All of those pix were taken from ads/jobs I made in the region and they were mostly published in regional magazines. My assumption was that if in the middle-east those pix were accepted without making a big fuzz out of it, I supposed that they would be easily accepted on [MS] as well, maybe without giving them much importance to them even (but that was a wrong assumption obviously).
Now when I wana go "heavier" and use my body for sensuality purposes I do it inside threads so that it is done in a discreet manner. I am always careful not to be/seem vulgar coz I don't like vulgarity (in general). [B]I love mercuryserver[/B] and my thought in this was to add a special flavor to it; I mean come on, where else do u have a female dj/model active member of a forum displaying such pix, coz after all what I am displaying is QUALITY done with DISCRETION...got to admit that it has added something pretty special to this forum; And as a consequence many fans followed me here and registered to [MS]. What I am saying are facts and not just words.
That is how I view it, and honestly i am negatively surprised at some comments where I feel envy and sometimes even jealousy.
To those I say that I don't need [MS] as a platform to market myself, as much as I need MCast to promote my music, thats is what brought me here in the first place. If I wana market myself I have other places and means of doing it, and in a more effective way where I could reach double or triple the total number of active members this forum has. But I wana solve this "Shiva-sex-beauty" B.S. issue, so I am working on it: In fact I have already shifted all my pix to "private" mode in a way that they won't appear anymore on the main page. Also some fans of mine have posted my pix in their albums, I will try to ask them to remove them, even if it is their account and i am not supposed to ask them anything or tell them what do with it. So you will be seeing less of me, and hopefull reading less of me as well.
I hope this reaction of mine will put a smile on some faces, more than this, I also tell them that I will even participate less to this forum hoping that the Shiva issue wont surface again.
But I won't hide that I have a feeling of disapointment from some members, I was expecting something else, something more mature and solid....but nevermind, it is not important anyway.
CheerZ
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[QUOTE=feather;759349]I was simply pointing out that this is a recurring thing whenever the topic of looks, beauty, sex, and Shiva, comes together in a thread. Nothing to do with making fun of you or blaming you.
This whole thread and past thread of similar topics simply indicate you have a different outlook on these things. I am simply going out on a limb here and pointing that out. I will admit that this is presumptious, but perhaps your good looks and your vocation colours your perception of such issues, and this is further exacerbated by your obliviousness to what I'm trying to say here.[/QUOTE]
K, dude...this has nothing to do with different look on things. I Made a little except of some of the posts that IMO show exactly how this thread got turned into what it is:
[QUOTE=Floridaorange]maybe if you all are lucky, shiva will add some points to the topic, she would know better than any seeing as how I am sure she has plenty of guy friends that have had to settle for just being friends [/QUOTE]
...whatever. Many women have this happen but Shiva seems to have such an amount of experience in this that particularly she should shed a light on this?
[QUOTE=Picklemonkey] or any other female member[/QUOTE]
Exactly.
[QUOTE=Floridaorange]^Sure I guess, but Shiva's obviously had to deal with the "let's just be friends" scenario more than many women than you or I know who have.[/QUOTE]
Keep pushing for Shiva.
[QUOTE=Shiva]Well, all my friends are guys, and they all know I am happily married since 16yrs and still greatly in love with my hubby....besides the fact that my friends are also his friends, and he earns their respect.
So no, I dont get into the "lets just be friends" type of situation...anymore.
But on a personal note guys, if she doen't want to be with you (and act like a brother-sister type of deal), then she is not meant to be yours to begin with....and life goes on.[/QUOTE]
You got your answer.
[QUOTE=Rainman]^^ no disrespect shiv, but do you ever get tired of guys kissing your ass because you are hot? i personally find it rediculous, but it has to get old at some point. ^^without putting words in her mouth, how would she know any different?[/QUOTE]
But it's not enough?
[QUOTE=Feather]I'm gonna come right out and say this: Any thread revolving looks, sex, beauty, Shiva--turns into what we have here. There is always some sort of miscommunication mis-translation going on. It's clear she has different perceptions on these issues from most of us, and I think it's a fine example of the point rainman raised.[/QUOTE]
Yay, it's all her fault now and women in general cannot communicate with men!
Who's the moron here having communication problems? It sure as hell ain't Shiva, but a bunch of guy that persist in pushing her forward when any women-related topic hits the board. If you keep ignoring what someone says long enough, you're gonna end up exactly at this spot. For fucks sake man, if you have such a problem with Shiva being present around here, then stop mentioning her goddamn name.
And to all that will most definitely be pissed off with me now: :TNF::Middlefi:
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[QUOTE=Yao;759555]Who's the moron here having communication problems? It sure as hell ain't Shiva,[B] but a bunch of guy that persist in pushing her forward when any women-related topic hits the board. [/B]If you keep ignoring what someone says long enough, you're gonna end up exactly at this spot. For fucks sake man, if you have such a problem with Shiva being present around here, then stop mentioning her goddamn name.[/QUOTE] I have to second this. Well said.
I'm still not sure why it is that some people felt that we had to take a simple post about a humor article and turn it into this drawn out request / expectations for Shiva to serve as the spokesperson for women who receive attention from men. It's all seemed quite strange and silly to me. I don't think she deserved all of the backlash for this thread - and that's irrespective of any personal opinions I have about her pictures or male-female interactions in general, etc.
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My only contribution in this thread was explaining a post and then making an observation based on my time on this board and past instances. I almost made a post with quotes in response to Yao, but who gives a flying fuck. I'm not going to add more fuel or be further embroiled in the kinda nonsense that happens around these threads.
I stand by what I said. Some of you see it, and some don't. That's fine, god forbid we all decide to agree with each other at the same time.
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What I should have probably allowed her to simply chime in if she wanted to. I assumed we were all familiar enough with her that it would be no biggie for me to name drop. But h well, lesson learned, and now I'm looking fwd to letting this one join the archives ^_^
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Sorry for being so rude guys. Could've probably made my point with a bit more tact...
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Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion, the exchange of views and ideas can turn a thread into some interesting, especially if it builds up within respect between the participants....so plz lets try to keep it that way.:)
There are several types of [MS]ers, among which the type of user with username "1234567" etc, who comes in here, goes to the promo section, downlaods, and the maximum he does is posting "tnx for the share". And you have the other extremety, the user who has relatively been here since a while, with a certain maturity or/and age, that stays and participates to this forum for what it is, and a forum IS in its members, not the amount of music is has. This user knows that there is more than that in here, blends in and try to bring /add quality to this place coz he likes it, and end up caring for it. The number of posts of each user indicates how much of his time he has give the forum, hence be part of it, care for it.
I am part of the latters, and proud of being a member of this forum; Few know my contribution to this place, most know me and know very well how I deal in general, and with theards like these ones in particular.
I care for keeping the peace and mutual respect in this place, so I don't accept to be at the center of disputes as it happens sometimes. And rarely, you have a user that really pushes it too much forward and gets ejects, and we don't wana have of those, plz.
All I can say guys is that I am enjoying, which probably are my last days at [MS], coz soon after delivery I donno if I even will be able to log in to [MS] and might be gone just like many others. I'm getting into an unknown zone of life. Having a new born at home is something tough, having 2 is.....much tougher, if u get my point.
I don't wana have bad energy from [MS] whatsoever.... The pix are removed (for now), maybe few traces will show on the random pix but those are from other users not from me, I cant do much about it.
CheerZ
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I wanna dedicate this post to my brother darrel braum ,assalam alaikum .... minister farrakhan, kobe bryant , kentuky fried chicken , el pollo loco what!!!! :p
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What I should have probably allowed her to simply chime in if she wanted to. I assumed we were all familiar enough with her that it would be no biggie for me to name drop. But h well, lesson learned, and now I'm looking fwd to letting this one join the archives ^_^[/quote]
There is no problem whatsoever dear. As long as there is harmony and peace between us MS members, all is A OK :D
You probably know how other forums are, some of them are really trashy, places where people insult each other etc.. And to have a site with 30.000+ members like [MS], with such mature and appreciable members and such a harmony despite our cultural differences......what could we ask more? It is one of the reasons why I love this place and I fully appreciate most of its members (at least the ones I know or got to be familiar with. I got to care very much for MS AND MCast.
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^^^^ :lol:
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Re: Shiva's life story
[quote=rainman;758847]
"Shiva's obviously had to deal with the "let's just be friends" scenario more than many women than you or I know who have."
[B]
is ass kissery at it's finest.[/B]
[/quote]
No, it's a statement of truth. Ass kissing is only when you are saying something [I]with intent to win favour of the person[/I].
Without a doubt, Shiva is a gorgeous woman... but mentioning this is not ass-kissing but a fact... or compliment,if you like. [B]
Like it or not, she can do nothing about this fact.[/B] :roll:
However, she releases regular, mental Mcast sessions 8), responds in these threads with helpful advice ;) and posts good pictures of herself like the other members and is a good energy on the board :p.
[B]Now how many models do we know who do that?[/B]
[B]Let's not get stupid things get in the way of positive discussion.[/B]
Let's just be thankful for our MS and our Shiva and behave like adults so she can hopefully put her old photos back up... :)
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You're nuts.
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[QUOTE=Shiva;761308] with such mature and appreciable members and such a harmony despite our cultural differences......what could we ask more? .[/QUOTE]
Thanks man ... I really try my best to keep things in harmony and peaceful in this place , is getting kindda hard specially after having some degenerates bastards in here that only wanna talk about, ass, tits and blow .
I believe in harmless activities one of them being playing this awesome game :D
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-Glsxe56_w&feature=player_embedded[/YOUTUBE]
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[quote=DjNutcase;761787]No, it's a statement of truth. Ass kissing is only when you are saying something [I]with intent to win favour of the person[/I].
Without a doubt, Shiva is a gorgeous woman... but mentioning this is not ass-kissing but a fact... or compliment,if you like. [B]
Like it or not, she can do nothing about this fact.[/B] :roll:
However, she releases regular, mental Mcast sessions 8), responds in these threads with helpful advice ;) and posts good pictures of herself like the other members and is a good energy on the board :p.
[B]Now how many models do we know who do that?[/B]
[B]Let's not get stupid things get in the way of positive discussion.[/B]
Let's just be thankful for our MS and our Shiva and behave like adults so she can hopefully put her old photos back up... :)[/quote]
Thank you (K)
[quote=Haziel;761836]Thanks man ... I really try my best to keep things in harmony and peaceful in this place , is getting kindda hard specially after having some degenerates bastards in here that only wanna talk ...[/quote]
They are in minority ;)
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[IMG]http://kttns.org/5owvj[/IMG]
Really? You people are so fucking gay :lol:
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And they don't sign their name :lol:
People!! Have the courage of your convictions !!! :lol:
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[quote=feather;762069][IMG]http://kttns.org/5owvj[/IMG]
Really? You people are so fucking gay :lol:[/quote]
What is wrong with you F.? Why r u going so ballitsik like this?? Why is that? Coz they appreciate pictures of beautiful women?
Feather, are you gay maybe? If yes and would like to share it with us, please don't hesitate to share ur sexual orientation on this forum... I am sure it will be well accepted.
[quote=DIDI;762082]And they don't sign their name People!! Have the courage of your convictions !!! [/quote]
[IMG]http://i173.photobucket.com/albums/w50/Shiva_Leb/5owvj.png[/IMG]
And you hun, you thing people don't have the courage to voice the convictions of theirs after that tens of appreciation threads were opened in my regard?? You're kinda late for that hun... ;)
Anyway, here you go for you conviction B.S., that was me who wrote and forgot to sign it,
[IMG]http://i173.photobucket.com/albums/w50/Shiva_Leb/5owvj.png[/IMG] NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA [U][B] [COLOR=Red]I have removed the pix and i'm almost gone from here.[/COLOR][/B][/U][U][B][COLOR=Red] So now kindly back off, if you mind, both of you. [/COLOR][/B][/U][B][COLOR=Red] [/COLOR][/B][COLOR=Silver]"Get off my back, or I will attack, and you don't want that!" - "I've got the power" - SNAP, u know, that song...? [/COLOR]
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[QUOTE=Shiva;762089] Feather, are you gay maybe? If yes and would like to share it with us, please don't hesitate to share ur sexual orientation on this forum... I am sure it will be well accepted. ][/QUOTE]
[SIZE="7"]Yes he is [/SIZE]
:p
Omg this thread has potential yess yes yes... it's alive !!!!!
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Don't mind these 2 Shivs they are probably jealous of us , it's something that ugly people do to beautiful people , I've suffer attacks in the past from these 2 australians and my confidence was so shattered , that i had to leave Ms for a month , Cus D'Amato helped me get my confidence back .
I love pigeons ...what !!! ;)
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[QUOTE=Shiva;762089]What is wrong with you F.? Why r u going so ballitsik like this?? Why is that? Coz they appreciate pictures of beautiful women?
Feather, are you gay maybe? If yes and would like to share it with us, please don't hesitate to share ur sexual orientation on this forum... I am sure it will be well accepted.
[IMG]http://i173.photobucket.com/albums/w50/Shiva_Leb/5owvj.png[/IMG]
And you hun, you thing people don't have the courage to voice the convictions of theirs after that tens of appreciation threads were opened in my regard?? You're kinda late for that hun... ;)
Anyway, here you go for you conviction B.S., that was me who wrote and forgot to sign it,
[IMG]http://i173.photobucket.com/albums/w50/Shiva_Leb/5owvj.png[/IMG] NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA NO HE IS NOT NUTS - SHIVA [U][B] [COLOR=Red]I have removed the pix and i'm almost gone from here.[/COLOR][/B][/U][U][B][COLOR=Red] So now kindly back off, if you mind, both of you. [/COLOR][/B][/U][B][COLOR=Red] [/COLOR][/B][COLOR=Silver]"Get off my back, or I will attack, and you don't want that!" - "I've got the power" - SNAP, u know, that song...? [/COLOR][/QUOTE] Slight overaction here. Particularly to something that no one knew was related to you. Well I guess we know now.
Btw my name is not hun :)
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[QUOTE=DIDI;762093] Btw my name is not hun :)[/QUOTE]
we know that duh!!!
:DumbAss:
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[QUOTE=Haziel;762092]Don't mind these 2 Shivs they are probably jealous of us , it's something that ugly people do to beautiful people , I've suffer attacks in the past from these 2 australians and my confidence was so shattered , that i had to leave Ms for a month , Cus D'Amato helped me get back my confidence back .
I love pigeons ...what !!! ;)[/QUOTE]:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: