Offering advice to any male members here on MS who feel clueless about meeting women or finding a potential wife. What makes me qualified? Nothing really, except for having worked in the modeling and acting industry for 5 years which I have had to pretend to married to or a bf of many many women. During those gigs I have had many conversations with different kinds of women. I grew up with sisters and not brothers, and being outnumbered in the house meant that most of the topics of discussion were female based :lol:. I have taken women's study courses, and have a degree in social science (doesn't hurt). I have dated a lot. I have had the pleasure of being in love 3 times in my life, which is kind of a lot I think. I plan to stay married to my wife for the rest of my life. I also have many close female friends as well as being a photographer who is constantly photographing women :lol:.

Troll, comment seriously or send me a PM, I'm here to help :RockOn: (and i know some of you could use it :lol:)

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Meeting her is the easy part, it's the whole "until death do you part" bit that really takes the work. (I mean that in a good way)

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Indeed a man of many talents

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[QUOTE=threehills;1131768]Meeting her is the easy part, it's the whole "until death do you part" bit that really takes the work. (I mean that in a good way)[/QUOTE]

I think marriage is relatively straight-forward. Where it gets tricky is being both a good father and husband and so on. But I hear ye.

[QUOTE=Micko;1131772]Indeed a man of many talents[/QUOTE]

ADD (albeit slight) has been good to me :lol:.

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Probably with all your study & experience, you would not be referring to us as "chicks?"..... might be a key point when handing out advice! :Rolling: just sayin.... maybe you're less evolved than you think?

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[QUOTE=KiwiTollway;1131786]Probably with all your study & experience, you would not be referring to us as "chicks?"..... might be a key point when handing out advice! :Rolling: just sayin.... maybe you're less evolved than you think?[/QUOTE] Good point :lol:

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^ hehehehehe Didi rocks!

but she's married...

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I am am in the damaged goods and second hand market.

on the wrong side of 30 now..so it's all trainwrecks and or single mums. I am not very rich so I am not a catch neither.

Might get a Bosnian or SE Asian one if I get my life together and save up. ...easier to please...and I am increasing their quality of life..to go with a local I am asking her to accept a decrease in quality of life, definitely in the short term and possibly in the long term.

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Approaching women randomly in public seems to be lustful and guys that are in the PUA community seem manipulative.

sad to say but i am glad to use tinder. low expectations there. nice to meet for coffee/drinks and occasional sex if it gets that far.

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[QUOTE=KiwiTollway;1131786]Probably with all your study & experience, you would not be referring to us as "chicks?"..... might be a key point when handing out advice! :Rolling: just sayin.... maybe you're less evolved than you think?[/QUOTE]

I second this.

Furthermore, inquisitively why are you offering your matchmaking services now?

Is it true that you're writing a book titled 'The pescetarianism's guide to picking up chicks, whilst being a model turned actor.'

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Yup - fully aware of the reaction by females to "chicks" but I had to interject some kind of cool factor on a predominantly male driven forum in order to drive interest and not seem lame. :lol:

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Chicks is never cool !! You should know that ;)

[QUOTE=diegoff;1131794]^ hehehehehe Didi rocks!

but she's married...[/QUOTE] No I'm not :)

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[QUOTE=floridaorange;1131805]Yup - fully aware of the reaction by females to "chicks" but I had to interject some kind of cool factor on a predominantly male driven forum in order to drive interest and not seem lame. :lol:[/QUOTE]

The very fact that you view my conclusion as "a reaction from females" rather than valid and your perception the term increases a "cool factor on a predominately male forum" just elevated my point about the evolution of your wisdom. Thank you!! :Howdy: I understand your motive was to drive interest and not seem lame, but degrading half the world's population to a newly hatched bird while professing to have the ability to "help" anyone find one of said opposite gender for themselves is highly ironic!!

Maybe let's not dig FL into a deeper hole than he already unknowingly finds himself? :roflmao:I do not want to seem too, too hard on you about this. It's just too good to resist though.

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No offense madame, but it was mostly for the guys on MS to participate in this thread. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Had I started the thread for the 4 females on MS, I would have said "Princesses" :lol: :lol: :lol:

I heart you Kiwi ;)

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:BangHead: It's hopeless :SuckeyTo:

Good luck to any guy who gets advice from this "expert" op.

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[QUOTE=floridaorange;1131810]No offense madame, but it was mostly for the guys on MS to participate in this thread. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Had I started the thread for the 4 females on MS, I would have said "Princesses" :lol: :lol: :lol:

I heart you Kiwi ;)[/QUOTE] And here are two of the major reasons there are only 4 females on MS. :)

Here is another,

[QUOTE]The very fact that you view my conclusion as "a reaction from females" rather than valid. Courtesy of KiwiTollway [/QUOTE]

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I think it happens whenever you are ready.. its all about timing, can't force the issue.

Also, I don't believe that we are all meant to be in long term relationships, get married, have kids, etc,. a lot of that is social/peer pressure.

The tricky part is dealing with our gene's need to reproduce, which relates to our sex drive, and our human desire/need to love and share our life with other people. Having a stable long term relationship might solve all that, but being happy during that period is a whole different story.

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[QUOTE=Illuminate;1131797]Is it true that you're writing a book titled 'The pescetarianism's guide to picking up chicks, whilst being a model turned actor.'[/QUOTE]

Ha ha

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[QUOTE=floridaorange;1131805] and not seem lame. :lol:[/QUOTE]

ship sailed some time ago

:) :) :)

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looool classic stuff in here...

keep it up Fo

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[QUOTE=nelinho;1131796]Approaching women randomly in public seems to be lustful and guys that are in the PUA community seem manipulative.

sad to say but i am glad to use tinder. low expectations there. nice to meet for coffee/drinks and occasional sex if it gets that far.[/QUOTE]

I guess you've got a point. I tended to be the one being approached, I use to like to sit back Dumb and Dumber style and send out the vibe at bars and shit. But looking the best you can look helps. That may mean hitting the gym. Not because females are shallow and want the muscular aesthetic as much as they like to feel safe and a stronger looking male provides that. Don't ever sell yourself short either bro. A good guy is hard to find for single women too. If you are kind and at least average looking the rest just takes confidence and a sense of humor which I know you are funny. Women love that shit. Everyone likes to forget their worries and laugh but most adults live humorless lives. Have a clear picture of what you want and know what you don't want. It's possible to find a woman that meets your looks requirements and personality if you know what they are. If you don't know though, that's when I think people date or marry the wrong people either because they think they should or some other reason. It's a bit of a numbers game too as well as proximity. Although the internet has changed the game in terms of proximity. My bro in law met a really nice/pretty girl online in Beverly Hills.

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[QUOTE=Huggie Smiles;1132032]ship sailed some time ago

:) :) :)[/QUOTE]

i reckon you have a point mate :lol:

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[QUOTE=Illuminate;1131797]I second this.

Furthermore, inquisitively why are you offering your matchmaking services now?

Is it true that you're writing a book titled 'The pescetarianism's guide to picking up chicks, whilst being a model turned actor.'[/QUOTE]

A) why not? I figure it's good karma

b) I started eating meat again a month ago, fried chicken last night. It was beautiful

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Fair enough.

But you are writing a book/memoir right?

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[video=youtube;7pi31sTSksw]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7pi31sTSksw[/video]

Problem solved, Humour.

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[QUOTE=Illuminate;1132052]

But you are writing a memoir right?[/QUOTE]

:lol: :TNF:

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[QUOTE=floridaorange;1131766]Offering advice to any male members here on MS who feel clueless about meeting women or finding a potential wife. What makes me qualified? Nothing really, except for having worked in the modeling and acting industry for 5 years which I have had to pretend to married to or a bf of many many women. During those gigs I have had many conversations with different kinds of women. I grew up with sisters and not brothers, and being outnumbered in the house meant that most of the topics of discussion were female based :lol:. I have taken women's study courses, and have a degree in social science (doesn't hurt). I have dated a lot. I have had the pleasure of being in love 3 times in my life, which is kind of a lot I think. I plan to stay married to my wife for the rest of my life. I also have many close female friends as well as being a photographer who is constantly photographing women :lol:. [/QUOTE]

Good god

A man who wanks off to one on them sex lines has had many conversations with all kinds of women, it doesn't mean you would take advice from one, even if he had five sisters and collected pictures from porn magazines.

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They used to call me meningitis, on account of the amount of students I've fucked. If anyone wants help in fucking students, meningitis is your man.

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[QUOTE=Zover;1132139]They used to call me meningitis, on account of the amount of students I've fucked. If anyone wants help in fucking students, meningitis is your man.[/QUOTE]

Yikes

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[QUOTE=Zover;1132138]Good god

A man who wanks off to one on them sex lines has had many conversations with all kinds of women, it doesn't mean you would take advice from one, even if he had five sisters and collected pictures from porn magazines.[/QUOTE]

Well I've never paid to be $$$ with a woman if that's what you mean... :lol:

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A good job you weren't born on a farm.

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[QUOTE=Zover;1132163]A good job you weren't born on a farm.[/QUOTE]

I can see where this is going ;)

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[video=youtube;SJUhlRoBL8M]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJUhlRoBL8M&feature=kp[/video]

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[QUOTE=Zover;1132138]Good god

A man who wanks off to one on them sex lines has had many conversations with all kinds of women, it doesn't mean you would take advice from one, even if he had five sisters and collected pictures from porn magazines.[/QUOTE] :lol:

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[QUOTE=Zover;1132163]A good job you weren't born on a farm.[/QUOTE]

I see what you did there...

Chunkywillalwaysbewithus.

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I find it difficult meeting any woman let alone the right chick :lol:

First impressions might be the problem: I'm 5'5" and 132 lb (at the moment) and Asian. So physically I'm completely against the norm in the Western countries I live in. Obviously I speak with a non-local/neutral accent. I also shave my head, have a labret piercing (a chin piercing) and an industrial piercing on my right ear (a steel bar). So that adds another barrier to the first impression (I think). I probably have a severe countenance: Nobody ever approaches me on the street for drugs and people have thought I was a 'gangster' :lol:

I don't know about looks but colleagues and people I meet always comment positively on my style and dressing, to the extent that some people think I'm gay because I look so 'tidy' and groomed :lol: I'm also trim and athletic for the ripe old age of 38.

But I do know I'm not much for small talk or the usual stuff that facilitate men meeting women, I don't function well in large groups; at a patty I prefer to keep to people I know. I can be very very socially awkward because my interests and conversational topics tend towards the very geek stuff.

And I've kinda given on the whole meeting women thing. It's gotten to a point where I can be completely oblivious to women's body language or any kinda flirtation/intention.

There's actually no downside to this because I've moved around so much I've gotten used to doing things like movies, dinner, theater, shopping, on my own; and if there had been someone in my life it would've been so much more difficult to relocate as I have.

One downside I do fear is I've gotten so used to doing my own things that I might become eccentric without even realizing it (the above points about my niche interests and knowledge, and being socially awkward). I actually find it tiring when friends crash with me and we have to keep doing stuff or I have to accommodate another person's wants.

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[QUOTE=feather;1132206]I find it difficult meeting any woman let alone the right chick :lol:

First impressions might be the problem: I'm 5'5" and 132 lb (at the moment) and Asian. So physically I'm completely against the norm in the Western countries I live in. Obviously I speak with a non-local/neutral accent. I also shave my head, have a labret piercing (a chin piercing) and an industrial piercing on my right ear (a steel bar). So that adds another barrier to the first impression (I think). I probably have a severe countenance: Nobody ever approaches me on the street for drugs and people have thought I was a 'gangster' :lol:

I don't know about looks but colleagues and people I meet always comment positively on my style and dressing, to the extent that some people think I'm gay because I look so 'tidy' and groomed :lol: I'm also trim and athletic for the ripe old age of 38.

But I do know I'm not much for small talk or the usual stuff that facilitate men meeting women, I don't function well in large groups; at a patty I prefer to keep to people I know. I can be very very socially awkward because my interests and conversational topics tend towards the very geek stuff.

And I've kinda given on the whole meeting women thing. It's gotten to a point where I can be completely oblivious to women's body language or any kinda flirtation/intention.

There's actually no downside to this because I've moved around so much I've gotten used to doing things like movies, dinner, theater, shopping, on my own; and if there had been someone in my life it would've been so much more difficult to relocate as I have.

One downside I do fear is I've gotten so used to doing my own things that I might become eccentric without even realizing it (the above points about my niche interests and knowledge, and being socially awkward). I actually find it tiring when friends crash with me and we have to keep doing stuff or I have to accommodate another person's wants.[/QUOTE]

I'd ask you for drugs in the street if that makes you feel better. I have some similar issues.

Tinder takes the shame out of approaching a girl in public and looking like a sex pest.

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[IMG]https://33.media.tumblr.com/d20c8fdbb9918c9df8fff1a9a9aa8a81/tumblr_n7bu4t1rdr1tu5rero1_1280.jpg[/IMG]

persistence pays off gents.

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You do make a reasonable point feather. I always wondered if you confined to the stereotypical marriage, kids, retire thing as you're continually moving around. It sounds pretty fucking awesome considering all the awesome places where you've worked/lived, but I got slightly fed up after doing this for one project, within the same state. Let alone another country.

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[QUOTE=Zover;1132163]A good job you weren't born on a farm.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Illuminate;1132187]I see what you did there...

Chunkywillalwaysbewithus.[/QUOTE]

Aren't farms where you normally find chicks?