Summer 2005: yours kinky was a happy single on a mission... Fuck everything with a heartbeat during a 10 day holiday in Kusadasi, Turkey. That didn't work out like I had planned as I ran into the love of my life during my first night out there.

Since then Erzina and me have had a long distance relationship 1.500 kms apart (in bird flight). If it weren't for the internet and my budget allowing me to spend 1K on phone bills per month and 300 to 500 euro on plane tickets to fly over to the other side of Europe every two months, we wouldn't have made it this far.

Summer 2007: the paperwork to get her into the EU is almost done. The procedure to get a student visum will take too long since she has to be here on Sept 24 to start her preparatory one-year Dutch programme at the Uni of Antwerp (she has to follow this post academic training in order to be accepted for a master in strategic communication). But we're starting a procedure for a tourist visum which will be mutated to a student visum when she gets here. That will get her in Belgium on time (Sept 15).

I can't express how thrilled I am that we're finally going to be together. Not only because of the constant missing and the shitloads of money I've spent, but also (an maybe above all) because we've managed to overcome all the prejudices our friends and our parents had. For those who know the story, her parents still won't have anything to do with me, but they've stopped making threats to Erzina.

Anyways, after an era of shitty relationships (read: complete disasters) and other crap I feel like I've finally arrived at a new chapter in my life. My business is booming, I'm clean as a whistle and fit like a tit and finally the only person who can put up with my fugly personality will be waking up next to me in less than 25 days. The pieces of the puzzle are finally coming together.

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[LEFT]Btw, the marriage is set for Summer 2009 :RockOn: [/LEFT] [/CENTER]

Re: Taking the "long distance" out of my relationship

Awe kinky, you are too cute! I am so glad that you two have been able to stick together through all the hardships, and I wish you both nothing but the best

hugs

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Thats great man, I wish you and her all the luck.

Hopefully it wont interfere with you posting in the "sexy time" thread!;)

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I've just accomplished the same. 800 miles apart for two years. Her parents won't have anything to do with me. But we're now just down the street from each other as we go through grad school. And I know the feeling spending all that money. But in the end, it was always well worth it. Good to hear things are working out for you!

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sick work dude! 8)

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Congrats mate! :Homer:

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congrats man, too bad i didnt get to meet her too when i was over there visiting, this is why you guys should come to the u.s. sometime. congrats!

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well we'll know what's up when you're hardly on here...:lol:

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^ haha

congrats man.

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congrats!!! i wish the best of luck for both of you

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very nice, I know what paperwork is in Belgium so good luck with that, getting married is gonna make that alot easier imo. Is that why you get married? anyways good for you everything is working out now.

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Thanks guys & girl :)

@ 88Mariner: it is worth it indeed. And as for the inlaws, personally I find it quite humiliating in my case (there isn't a single Albanian guy who can give her what I'm giving her, muslim or not) and it breaks my heart that they're making her chose between them and me, but in the end our hapiness comes before their approval. So to say it very eloquently: FUCK THAT SHIT! :D Just motivates me more to be everything I can be for her ;)

@ Immadic: the paperwork is a bitch, really it is. When you're a EU citizen, you can do just about anything, but when you're trying to get into the EU, it's like storming a 40ft wall.

As for getting married: her student visum will become void after she has completed her master degree, so it's either getting married or seeing your woman being deported back to her country. I'm so looking forward to the procedure before the marriage: interogations by the immigration police, civil servants going through your personal life, even checking out your bed to check you're sleeping together. It's great to get the Gestapo treatment as a tax payer because you're pretty much automatically a suspect when you get married to a non EU citizen here.

And in the mean time illigal immigrants are in a comfy position when they have children. I mean, it's inhumane to toss out kids who have lived here for a couple of years, right? (see those equadorians a few weeks ago here).

But hey, it's all worth it in the end ;)

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Congratulations matey. I wish you nothing but happiness for the future.

My story reads similar to yours. February this year I met an amazing girl, everything is perfect except she's 7500kms away! In under 3 weeks time I will be making my third trip back to see her. It leaves no money for me to go out and piss it up anymore, but it's a small price to pay. I'm going through scenarios in my head day after day to make life easier but haven't settled on something yet.

Anyway, this thread is all about you. Really happy for you mate, it's going to be the best feeling having her wake up to you each morning after such a wait.

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Yeap, the cost side is a bitch, but the good thing about long distance relationships is that you get to know each other faster than with a normal relationship. I mean, when you only have e-mail/msn/phone as regulary contact, you talk more than when you have someone you see on a weekly basis. Plus you start stress testing the relationship earlier since you have this thought in your head that it's all great 'n' shit, but "We'll see how far we'll get, I'm not gonna pretend to be better than I am. With the effort and money going into it, I'd rather know sooner than later if this situation won't work out."

At least that's my experience.

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Haha yep, I know what you mean. Trust was a tiny issue early on for both of us but we proved ourselves to each other early on and now it never crosses the mind. Especially when you talk every night you know exactly what is going on anyway :p

The money is really nothing and I have no doubt about it being worth it.

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I hear ya, plus the webcam never lies either :mrgreen:

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gtJF3veLzko[/YOUTUBE]

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:CrackUp:

She's only caught me once with a black man coming out of my room.

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Congrats, glad to hear its all worked out.

I've noticed a similarity in all relationships that really seem to "work". The couple had to go through some trial or tribulation that really tests them (aka her parents not aknowleding you have a pulse). But if you guys have survived it, you're probablyt he better off for it.

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That's wonderful!!! Wish you both all the happiness in the world :D

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so, no more freaky pics from you?????? hahahaha congrats!!! very nice story and happy ending (... starting!!)

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Congrats Jan and all the best. You passed so many hurdles already so this last one (aka marriage) will be an easy one now. ;)

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Gratz Jan. Why wait till 2009 though? Marry her for peats sake.

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^^^ Why dude, the bitch aint going anywhere ;)

[quote=TomTom;520204]Congrats Jan and all the best. You passed so many hurdles already so this last one (aka marriage) will be an easy one now. ;)[/quote]Yeah well, since it's illegal to keep your woman on a chain or a dog house in Belgium, it's the easiest thing to do. Stupid laws :lol:

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[quote=KinKyJ;519989]Summer 2005: yours kinky was a happy single on a mission... Fuck everything with a heartbeat during a 10 day holiday in Kusadasi, Turkey. That didn't work out like I had planned as I ran into the love of my life during my first night out there.

Since then Erzina and me have had a long distance relationship 1.500 kms apart (in bird flight). If it weren't for the internet and my budget allowing me to spend 1K on phone bills per month and 300 to 500 euro on plane tickets to fly over to the other side of Europe every two months, we wouldn't have made it this far.

Summer 2007: the paperwork to get her into the EU is almost done. The procedure to get a student visum will take too long since she has to be here on Sept 24 to start her preparatory one-year Dutch programme at the Uni of Antwerp (she has to follow this post academic training in order to be accepted for a master in strategic communication). But we're starting a procedure for a tourist visum which will be mutated to a student visum when she gets here. That will get her in Belgium on time (Sept 15).

I can't express how thrilled I am that we're finally going to be together. Not only because of the constant missing and the shitloads of money I've spent, but also (an maybe above all) because we've managed to overcome all the prejudices our friends and our parents had. For those who know the story, her parents still won't have anything to do with me, but they've stopped making threats to Erzina.

Anyways, after an era of shitty relationships (read: complete disasters) and other crap I feel like I've finally arrived at a new chapter in my life. My business is booming, I'm clean as a whistle and fit like a tit and finally the only person who can put up with my fugly personality will be waking up next to me in less than 25 days. The pieces of the puzzle are finally coming together.

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[LEFT]Btw, the marriage is set for Summer 2009 :RockOn:[/LEFT]

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:lol: had to be done, the temptation was too great :lol:

na on a serious note jan i,m happy for u m8, just dont fuck it up ;)

wish u all the best of luck 8)

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just dont fuck it up ;)

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that all hes going to be doing initially!

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Bravo!!! wish you all the best We're putting the "long distance" in ours as she's leaving for the Hague to study in 10 days; at least, it's only for 15 months

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[quote=Huggie Smiles;520222]that all hes going to be doing initially![/quote]

:lol:

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[quote=red1;520219]:lol: had to be done, the temptation was too great :lol:

na on a serious note jan i,m happy for u m8, just dont fuck it up ;)

wish u all the best of luck 8)[/quote]Here, go play a bit on this dom: [url]http://www.limmy.com/playthings/xylophone/[/url]

And yes, fucking it up is the plan :D

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Congrats Jan!! Are we all invited to the wedding? Then we can look at her face instead of her boobs all the time. ;)

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well done mate, congrats on making it thru the long distance test. best of luck in your future together. great story too!

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congrats. must be a wonderful feeling!

i'm also taking the "long distance" out my relationship in less than 2 weeks now. granted we only live 150 miles apart, but being able to only see each other on weekends for the last 2+ years has been rough and sometimes very frustrating.

btw, i love her skull & crossbones headband. 8)

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Forgot to say....She a lucky lady imo. :)

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[quote=chanty;520236]Congrats Jan!! Are we all invited to the wedding? Then we can look at her face instead of her boobs all the time. ;)[/quote]

I dont see why we should change now.

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[CENTER][B][SIZE="7"][B][COLOR="Blue"]MS INTERNATIONAL MEETUP SUMMER 2009 - BELGIUM[/COLOR][/B][/SIZE][/B] [B](specific date and place to be determined by Kinky)[/B][/CENTER]

Congrats Jan...nice to get that long-distance crap out of the way and best of luck living together (that's always fun ;) ) Here's to a fun and sex-filled future! :Cheerz:

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[COLOR=RoyalBlue][B][SIZE=7]HELL YEAH, STELLA FOR EVERYONE!!![/SIZE][/B][/COLOR]

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[quote=KinKyJ;519989]Summer 2005: yours kinky was a happy single on a mission... Fuck everything with a heartbeat during a 10 day holiday in Kusadasi, Turkey. That didn't work out like I had planned as I ran into the love of my life during my first night out there.

Since then Erzina and me have had a long distance relationship 1.500 kms apart (in bird flight). If it weren't for the internet and my budget allowing me to spend 1K on phone bills per month and 300 to 500 euro on plane tickets to fly over to the other side of Europe every two months, we wouldn't have made it this far.

Summer 2007: the paperwork to get her into the EU is almost done. The procedure to get a student visum will take too long since she has to be here on Sept 24 to start her preparatory one-year Dutch programme at the Uni of Antwerp (she has to follow this post academic training in order to be accepted for a master in strategic communication). But we're starting a procedure for a tourist visum which will be mutated to a student visum when she gets here. That will get her in Belgium on time (Sept 15).

I can't express how thrilled I am that we're finally going to be together. Not only because of the constant missing and the shitloads of money I've spent, but also (an maybe above all) because we've managed to overcome all the prejudices our friends and our parents had. For those who know the story, her parents still won't have anything to do with me, but they've stopped making threats to Erzina.

Anyways, after an era of shitty relationships (read: complete disasters) and other crap I feel like I've finally arrived at a new chapter in my life. My business is booming, I'm clean as a whistle and fit like a tit and finally the only person who can put up with my fugly personality will be waking up next to me in less than 25 days. The pieces of the puzzle are finally coming together.

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[LEFT]Btw, the marriage is set for Summer 2009 :RockOn: [/LEFT] [/CENTER] [/quote]This is awesome Jan! Congrats to both of you! I'm happy you guys overcame her parents and the obvious distance and the coolest thing is that she is a Balkan girl :RockOn:

enjoy it guys :iloveyou: