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[quote=thesightless;422999]this makes me laugh. you need to be better on your feet. fight back , make em embarras themselves, while she laughs at them.[/quote]

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[QUOTE=Morgan;423538]Sean, I'd love to go out drinking with you. I'll show you how to party properly.

Yao, you seem to have some major issues over not scoring the other night. Move on mate, plenty more fish in the sea. ;)

Phone her up and have tell her she has changed you, made you see your mates for the children they are. Make her feel important about the life changing way meeting her affected you,. You'll be in her pants by tea time. :D[/QUOTE]

For real, she asked my phone number to a friend and just texted me, but i'm actually more interested in one of my co-workers. And this chick just doesn't do it for me when I'm sober...:twisted:

Now the question is: how do I get rid of her?

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[QUOTE=Yao;423838] Now the question is: how do I get rid of her?[/QUOTE]

Assuming she's just some random you're not likely to encounter again, I think you can do nothing. If you didn't ask for her phone number and she tracked you down but you're not into her, I wouldn't do anything at all -- don't return her calls, text messages, etc. She'll get the hint.

Seems a bit harsh, but the alternative is leading her on and/or having an awkward discussion that is really overkill for the situation. FFS, you haven't even been out on a date with this gal, you're not being an ass if you don't continue the discussion past one drunken evening. The proper way to end a "relationship" is always commensurate with the length of said relationship -- for example, you shouldn't end a long-term relationship via email -- but I don't think that kissing someone while drunk in a bar a few times entitles her to much of anything other than polite acknowledgment and friendly banter if you should run into her again.

If it is someone you're likely to see again, keep it light and airy, and do what you can to convey the message -- without coming right out and saying it -- that you had fun but viewed it pretty casually.

And BTW, even though it ended up working out for you in this instance, any friend who interferes with you when you're chatting up a gal should lose his "drinking with you" privileges. In fact, idiotic drunks just get on my last nerve, whether they interfere with you firing on a gal or not. I ended up kicking a roommate to the curb because he was such a bad drunk -- it's just irritating.

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[quote=Yao;423838] Now the question is: how do I get rid of her?[/quote] Try putting it in her butt when least expects it.:o: Tell her you think her mom is hot. Text her back 'UR 8008S R leet!!!111!!!" Ask her to come over and play Madden.

Just don't text her back, she'll get the idea sooner or later.

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[quote=Morgan;423548]Spot on.

If my heating breaks, i call a plumber. Problems with electrics call an electrian.

Call the proffessionals.[/quote]

quote of the year imo

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lol @ morgan

Toasty: I think a simple text msg with something along the lines of "Lets just leave it at that" should, right...?

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Fuck it anyway, I'm having drinks with a cute girl after work tomo if she still wants...dunno what the deal is, but at least she actually seems worth some trouble ;) Unlike the one from friday...

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[quote=Yao;423838] Now the question is: how do I get rid of her?[/quote]

Easy!

4 Words. 4 Syllables.

Let's Just Be Friends

:twisted:

[SIZE=1](i count the contraction as one word)[/SIZE]

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Dear Baby,

Welcome to Dumpsville. Population: You.

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^^^^^ jajajaj

did you shag her yet?

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[QUOTE=Yao;423884] Toasty: I think a simple text msg with something along the lines of "Lets just leave it at that" should, right...?[/QUOTE]

Unless you've actually said, "I'll call you" or otherwise indicated that you expected things to progress beyond that evening, that's more than I'd do. Everyone has been on both sides of this situation before, so think about it from her standpoint: would you rather just have it kinda fizzle out, or have someone who barely knows you tell you, "thanks, but no thanks."

If you don't want to flat out ignore her, wait until she asks if you'd like to meet up, and then just be busy at the time she suggests. Over and over again. It's the holiday season, as far as she knows, you're really tied up for the next few weeks, and it's just a case of bad timing and she'll either chalk it up or get the hint -- but either way, she'll move on.

Were you drunk enough that you could just respond, "Who is this?" :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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[quote=Yao;423838]For real, she asked my phone number to a friend and just texted me, but i'm actually more interested in one of my co-workers. And this chick just doesn't do it for me when I'm sober...:twisted:

Now the question is: how do I get rid of her?[/quote]

[quote=Yao;423885]Fuck it anyway, I'm having drinks with a cute girl after work tomo if she still wants...dunno what the deal is, but at least she actually seems worth some trouble ;) Unlike the one from friday...[/quote]First he's pissed at his mates for fucking up a one night stand, then he doesn't know how to dump the girl again and finally he's having drinks with another girl, but he's clueless as to the point...

Take a little friendly advice Pep: stop looking so relentless for a girlfriend. Two years ago I was doing that too: dating one woman after another, banging them, comparing them and keeping all options open. You lie to yourself when you pretend to be "just dating", because deep inside you perfectly know what you're really doing. And it won't make you happy in the end.

Just let go of what you're looking for, have fun and let things come along on their own time. They will, trust me. I actually ran into Erzina at the moment when I gave the finger to my girlfriend quest and just wanted to go out and bang everything with a heartbeat...

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A bit off topic from Yao's problem but friend related non the less.

I met a good friend of 18 years last night for holiday drinks. We're outside having a smoke and she says "You know, I used to be jealous of all the guys that were attracted to you............ until I realized they were all assholes." WTF? Glad you feel better now sister!

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[QUOTE=KinKyJ;423935]First he's pissed at his mates for fucking up a one night stand, then he doesn't know how to dump the girl again and finally he's having drinks with another girl, but he's clueless as to the point...

Take a little friendly advice Pep: stop looking so relentless for a girlfriend. Two years ago I was doing that too: dating one woman after another, banging them, comparing them and keeping all options open. You lie to yourself when you pretend to be "just dating", because deep inside you perfectly know what you're really doing. And it won't make you happy in the end.

Just let go of what you're looking for, have fun and let things come along on their own time. They will, trust me. I actually ran into Erzina at the moment when I gave the finger to my girlfriend quest and just wanted to go out and bang everything with a heartbeat...[/QUOTE]

Um. I actually want to do just that. Fucking eveything with a heartbeat. I'm most definitely not looking for a relationship right now, just on the hunt for p***y. Thanks for the advice tho, cause you're damn right. Date got cancelled tho, but she offered to do it next week (not much chance this week with those damn holidays and her in a different city...). she's nice, but nothing more than that.

@ toasty: I might give that last one a try, lol. I never asked her phone number, I actually rarely do that unless I really want to meet up again. Else its just either they come home and we hit it off or I don't give a fuck wether we meet again. That was the case now, but she got my number off a friend that had no idea what happened since he wasn't there that night. Bummer. Guess I'll need to give a hint if she persists, for now I'm just keeping quiet. Should be enough of a hint methinks....

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Chanty: ditch that friend...what nerve to tell you something like that!!

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[quote=chanty;424297]A bit off topic from Yao's problem but friend related non the less.

I met a good friend of 18 years last night for holiday drinks. We're outside having a smoke and she says "You know, I used to be jealous of all the guys that were attracted to you............ until I realized they were all assholes." WTF? Glad you feel better now sister![/quote]

blatant "im a hot chick"post. shame, shame

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:lol:

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pics or else

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take em both on!

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[quote=chanty;424297]A bit off topic from Yao's problem but friend related non the less.

I met a good friend of 18 years last night for holiday drinks. We're outside having a smoke and she says "You know, I used to be jealous of all the guys that were attracted to you............ until I realized they were all assholes." WTF? Glad you feel better now sister![/quote]"I'm jealous of your boobs" would be more appropriate ;)