Re: I pulled a Sasha...
well, I too wonder how having ear wax built up can cause your ear drum to be injured, but I had a similar experience that should provide some insight.
I had water in my ear once, and couldn't get it out for the logest time, it was really bothering me. So someone suggested using a q-tip to get it out. That packet the wax in my ears, I think, and I couldn't hear out of that ear much, and it hurt pretty bad. So I went to the doctor and he used this device to suck out the wax. It was crazy how much was in there, you have no idea. He did this for both ears for posterity. Seriously it was nasty how much was in there. Afterwards I felt like I could hear ten times better. But he told me also not to use q-tips. What you are supposed to do it, when showering, use a wash cloth that has soapy water on it, and just put it in your ear and clean it out. Don't worry, it won't go too far in, but that's fine. You are cleaning out wax that is there though, and he said that this is the stuff that would eventually go into your ear if not cleaned. Once you do this, the wax in your ear will naturally come out (although very slowly over time). So if you keep cleaning your ear every day in this fashion you should be ok. Does this make sense?