friends should never ever hook up with exes!

my best friend visiting me from california, hooked up with my ex and brought him home with us, then expected me to let them sleep in my mothers big bed (shes away), THEN wanted me to drive him home 45 mins south.

then proceeded to tell me i never loved him and i have no emotions, and then bitched about sasha and how only druggies like that sorta thing and how image is everything why would i want to wear jeans to a club. Ugh. Who the fuck did this girl become.

Yea. This week is going to be just greaaaaaaaat :roll: :HolyShit: :Who:

:shock:

I guess you need to search for a NEW best friend... :roll:

Re: unwritten code of the 'ex'

[quote=DreamGirlie] Who the fuck did this girl become. [/quote] She is your friend ... And she cares more about her then she does about you ... :Hijack: :roll:

yea :Hijack: that may not be a bad idea...

Some friend...I'd slip a roofie in her drink and have her gangied by the football team if I were you...If she wants it so bad that she has to go to your ex, she would probably oblige to 30 100Kilo studs. Anyway, that's fucked up, if any of my friends hit my ex I would chop off the dong personally.

With friends like that... you don't enemies.

"Image is everything"? Next time, let her walk...

I hooked up with a friends ex once... but it was plain payback. I went on vacations and left him my apartment keys, he broke my bike, a window, didn't clean a single thing in one month, and to top it off he started talking shit about me... It was nice taking his ex... :Naughty:

Out of sight, out of mind.

This is why I don't stay friends with very many exes.

I don't want to know about their love lives after me, and I certainly don't want them to know about mine after I'm done with them.

Your in a tough situation and it sucks!

These days I have to question people's hidden agendas bc everyone has one. Trust your intuition when it comes to these situations bc it's usually right.

I would do some serious re-evaluation on the state of your current friendship...

hang in there...

If people would stop fornicating and just get married none of this would ever happen :P :wink:

[color=darkred]Like someone else here said. " With friends like that, who needs enemies?" Sorry. Not very nice. That is why I have no contact with any of my ex's that way they can't mess with me in any way.[/color]

[quote=el presidente Highsteppa]Out of sight, out of mind.

This is why I don't stay friends with very many exes.

I don't want to know about their love lives after me, and I certainly don't want them to know about mine after I'm done with them.[/quote]

its true man -- when I try to stay friends with my exes the relatiionship is worst than when we were fighting.. i just had to axe a friendship cuz of that

[quote=mylexicon]If people would stop fornicating and just get married none of this would ever happen :P :wink:[/quote]

yes, so we need to all be like me and spend so much time listening to records that you are asexual by default. :Down:

anyhew, jamie -- ditch the friend and tell her to fuck off. I know you personally a little bit and I can tell you desserve a lot better!

gl with it :)

I think you need a new best friend! That's completely unacceptable behavior whether it's a close friend or not. On a side note, I found out not long ago that a newly seperated coworker is dating my ex. It sucks because I work with both of them. It's times like these that I remind myself why I don't date coworkers.

Was she as drunky as you were last night? that could explain a lot....

thats a tough one dreamgirlie.

i lost a really good friend because i started dating his ex. there was a 5 year gap in between but it's just one of those things that you have listen to your heart for. i didn't want to hurt him but our friendship was beginning to decline and the feelings i have for his ex were to strong to ignore. we were supposed to hook up back in high school and have known eachother for almost 8-9 years.

when i look back on it now a year later i don't regret doing it but sometimes i wonder how things might have been if i stayed away like he wanted me to.

your friend sounds like a bitch though and seems to have the same nasty attitude my old friend had.

Dreamgirlie that is bs.. Screw her!!! Who does she think she is? You don't need friends like that..

Re: unwritten code of the 'ex'

[quote=DreamGirlie]friends should never ever hook up with exes!

my best friend visiting me from california, hooked up with my ex and brought him home with us, then expected me to let them sleep in my mothers big bed (shes away), THEN wanted me to drive him home 45 mins south.

then proceeded to tell me i never loved him and i have no emotions, and then bitched about sasha and how only druggies like that sorta thing and how image is everything why would i want to wear jeans to a club. Ugh. Who the fuck did this girl become.

Yea. This week is going to be just greaaaaaaaat :roll: :HolyShit: :Who:[/quote] :shock: WTF!! so if she wants to sleep with your ex, let em WALK to the mearest motel, i would of ditch em at the club :?

That shit is not cool.

Time to think about who's really a friend and who's not eh?

--djway

Give them a box of rubbers as a peace offering - but poke holes in them first. ;)

Sleep with her father...That's shut her up!!

[quote=mingus51]Sleep with her father...That's shut her up!![/quote]

Do it, and take photo's, maybe even a little home movie you can send her for christmas :Nice:

[quote=el presidente Highsteppa] Out of sight, out of mind.

This is why I don't stay friends with very many exes.

I don't want to know about their love lives after me, and I certainly don't want them to know about mine after I'm done with them.[/quote]

I agree with this, especially [b]I don't want to know about their love lives after me[/b], i'll still remain friends with them, I just dont want to know!

Dreamgirl if she truely is your best friend she would never even consider that. It's an unwritten law you do not date or mess with your friedns exes. As far as her saying "you never loved him" that's just her way of validating the situation because she's knows it's wrong and doesn't want to take responsibility for her actions. That a piece of shit thing to do and I would get a new friend and if she truely wants you as a friend she won't continue that and she'll make it up to you. Until then I'd drop her ass.

Apparently the one day i couldnt take off work while she was here, i work for 4 hours tomorrow evening she wants to go hang out with the ex again. Had the nerve to ask me if it was ok, I simply said i wont be any more hurt than i already am but dont expect me to be nice. She is making plans with him.

This is one of the reasons most of my friends are guys, i hate girls!

rubyraks- she was drunk BUT she started dancing with him and such before getting drunk, also she continued it on saturday after sobering up completely.

lucas- i miss ya & thanks, i know i do.

Someone said once:

When MEN see a buddy with a beautiful girl they'd like to be with, they think: ' I want a girl just like her.'

When WOMEN see a friend with a guy they want, they think "I want her man, and I'm going to take him from that bitch.'

If shes hot, send her my way. I will take care of the situation.....

[quote=hypoluxxa]Someone said once:

When MEN see a buddy with a beautiful girl they'd like to be with, they think: ' I want a girl just like her.'

When WOMEN see a friend with a guy they want, they think "I want her man, and I'm going to take him from that bitch.'[/quote]

thought I must admit -- I've often said to myself, "damn i want his girl."

but I usually stop myself cuz they are a friend, and besides -- what kinda relationship could come from a girl who leaves one friend for another friend? your guaranteeing the same thing to happen to you later on!!! this is unless you just wanna spend a night with your friends girl -- which is quite fucked up if they are truly your friend. If they aren't, that's still a little fucked up -- I have turned down some ass outa respect to the fact that I know they are in a relationship -- what happened to common fucking courtesy?

"the most important lesson a gentleman learns, is when to stop being one."

[quote=mylexicon]If people would stop fornicating and just get married none of this would ever happen :P :wink:[/quote]

That's something my father would say :wink:

when sex is involved, common courtesy and everything else gets tossed out the window :CrackUp:

Bottom Line is Friends do don't do that to friends......Get both of them out of your life....You'll be better off trust me

[quote=krelm]Give them a box of rubbers as a peace offering - but poke holes in them first. ;)[/quote]

:RockOn: :CrackUp: :wink: :P :lol: :Who: Thats the way to do it

Its harsh, but fair.

Mates should know better, it happened to me once. My mate didn't mean to he was drunk(he says). He knew i still liked her, as it was a fairly recent break up. Bricked it, cause he though i was gonna beat the shit out of him and avoided me like the plague for 2 weeks. I believe he didn't mean it, and just let it slide. Friends are friends, women come and go. BUt its all dependent on the situation.

To be fair, your mate was taking the piss. I fi were u i'd refer back to the old thread we had on getting revenge. Sugar in gas tank - simple and effective. :WTF: :Who: :twisted:

Re: unwritten code of the 'ex'

[quote=DreamGirlie]then bitched about sasha and how [color=#ff0036]only druggies like that sorta thing[/color][/quote]

Run while you still can!! :lol:

i'll come make her jealous! ;) :Naughty:

star light, star bright, i wish upon a star tonight.... okay, a bit corny.

dreamgirlie: just wish ill upon her. sure, it's voodoo, and it's fucked up... but, seriously, fuck her! any person that badmouths me to my face usually gets shit back (karma) cuz i just wish 'em ill on their own behalf.

the lower they put themselves, the easier it'll be for someone mightier to kick the shit out of her.

(yes, i know, i make little sense)

ummm, it's hard to say it any better than the rest of the posts so why try FUCK 'em both not just because she's dating your ex but b/c of the things she said. Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me.

[quote=krelm]Give them a box of rubbers as a peace offering - but poke holes in them first. ;)[/quote] :RockOn:

sorry that sucks but everyone is right, drop them both like a bad habit.

& futherrmore this thread is fucking hilarious! :lol: some of you guys' one liners have me dieing at work!

drop that zero and get with the hero!

Wouldn't it be Great if she called you in a couple of weeks and said she was pregnant Holy Shit then. find a new friend seems a little sluty if she is doing that to you

i think you need to introduce me to your friend. i'll make sure she doesnt bother you while shes here.

[quote=DreamGirlie] This is one of the reasons most of my friends are guys, i hate girls! [/quote]

:Bingo: At least guys won't start dating your exes... ...hopefully. :wink:

but really, as it has been said... who needs friends like this... :RockOn:

[quote=krelm]Give them a box of rubbers as a peace offering - but poke holes in them first. ;)[/quote]

:ROFLMAO:

That's Twisted :lol: