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Final Warning

135 durable postsStarted 2011-10-07Latest 2011-10-26
#108339Post 1 of 135

Guys, I'm getting tired of seeing all the bickering, personal attacks, and overall low immaturity levels around here. I have tried multiple times in the past to keep this place clean by addressing those who were attacking others, and it seems like every attempt I make at correcting it gets more criticism than the topic that's being complained about to begin with.

If you feel so strongly about an opinion that it gives you the urge to attack another member on the forum, either get off of the Internet or talk to a friend about it via PM. Your "defending yourself," for whatever the reason may be, is not doing anything but fueling more anger with the other members that read your post. In my eyes, if you feel so strongly about a subject that you have to call one member a piece of shit because they believe in something that doesn't match your values, then you are no better than the person you are "defending yourself" from.

[B]The reason this place is a headache to visit isn't because of one or two people. It's because everyone is trying to shove their opinions on everyone else. The "everyone is wrong but me and I need them to know" mentality is ruining this place. It's because each of you calls out members in public, instead of reporting them in private. It's because each of you feel entitled to something over other members because each of you has been here for 5+ years.[/B]

I'm re-starting the zero tolerance policy toward personal attacks that I tried a few months ago. Anybody who makes any type of hateful comment toward another member, like "you're a piece of shit," or even other direct comments like "you're an idiot" or "that's stupid," will be banned for an amount of time to be determined. I am the judge here, not anybody else. Nobody is given preferential treatment, and I don't care if your friends or I agree with you being banned instead of another person. If you disagree with an action that I make, tell me in PM. If you hijack yet another thread to complain about an action that I made to try to keep this place complaint free, then you are only contributing to the hate.

This place is not a democracy. Decisions will be made, and you will have to either accept that your friend has been temporarily banned for being hateful toward another member, or you will need to leave. Everyone needs to realize that someone is in charge here, and it isn't you.

Remember this: everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I don't care how much you don't like a person or their opinion--if you don't have anything nice to say to them, don't say anything at all. As soon as you attack another, you're gone. If this doesn't work, Kamal and I are just going to shut down down [ms].

Adam

#1551999Post 2 of 135

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^ the same is hapening in the world... hope everything solves out.

#1552002Post 3 of 135

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Must have missed some of the poisonous bickering, but I'm all for a bit of respect - for me [ms] is not about point scoring & oneupmanship, it has always been a place to kick back & relax on with like minded people that support great music.

#1552005Post 4 of 135

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I actually thought GYY had improved on the whole :lol:

#1552012Post 5 of 135

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I'd rather this place not get shut down. Step your game up older members, we can all be better examples for the noobs at times, myself included of course.

#1552014Post 6 of 135

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fucking right doggie... word life

reckon those grounds could surely serve as the quintessence of any integrated construct of [I]right human relations - [/I]in cyber or rl communities. forreal.

peace out

#1552027Post 7 of 135

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[QUOTE=diegoff;994098]^ the same is hapening in the world... hope everything solves out.[/QUOTE]

my thoughts exactly

[QUOTE=floridaorange;994113]I'd rather this place not get shut down. Step your game up older members, we can all be better examples for the noobs at times, myself included of course.[/QUOTE]

agreed !

PEACE !!!!

#1552028Post 8 of 135

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On the board I moderate, we have this system/plug-in that allows mods to infract a user's post. Every infraction accumulates points until thresholds are reached and the user is automatically suspended. Kinda like driving offences.

Would that be a better/easy alternative than a sudden and outright ban/suspension that people didn't see coming?

#1552038Post 9 of 135

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nahhhh. let the banhammers fly dude. i spent some time in the banslammer: a good "jiggidy check yoself before u wreck yoself" at that. it's not like u're going to be isp ip permabanned for calling somebody a ---.

#1552039Post 10 of 135

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Wow there're actually images for 'banhammer' :lol::lol:

[IMG]http://www.geekzone.co.nz/images/forums/banhammer1a.jpg[/IMG]

#1552040Post 11 of 135

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[QUOTE=picklemonkey;994095]what pickle said[/QUOTE]

Spot on!

#1552041Post 12 of 135

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[QUOTE=i!!ustrious;994139]nahhhh. let the banhammers fly dude. i spent some time in the banslammer: a good "jiggidy check yoself before u wreck yoself" at that. it's not like u're going to be isp ip permabanned for calling somebody a ---.[/QUOTE]

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#1552045Post 13 of 135

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#1552047Post 14 of 135

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I didn't get it. So loyal contributors and people who've been working hard for ms are in the same ballpark as trolls?

It wasn't a joke, I candidate myself for moderator: trolls goes OUT, more communications, threads that derail gets instantly binned.

#1552048Post 15 of 135

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#1552049Post 16 of 135

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[QUOTE=sbando;994148]I didn't get it. So loyal contributors and people who've been working hard for ms are in the same ballpark as trolls?

It wasn't a joke, I candidate myself for moderator: trolls goes OUT, more communications, threads that derail gets instantly binned.[/QUOTE]

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#1552053Post 17 of 135

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[QUOTE=sbando;994148]I didn't get it. So loyal contributors and people who've been working hard for ms are in the same ballpark as trolls?[/QUOTE]

Presumably what Pickle means is nothing excuses you or gives you carte blanche to mistreat another forumer.

#1552055Post 18 of 135

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[QUOTE=i!!ustrious;994115]fucking right doggie... word life

reckon those grounds could surely serve as the quintessence of any integrated construct of [I]right human relations - [/I]in cyber or rl communities. forreal.

peace out[/QUOTE]

:lol:

#1552056Post 19 of 135

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What has this to do with the Steve Jobs thread, where Adam posted a warning.

#1552057Post 20 of 135

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[QUOTE=sbando;994157]What has this to do with the Steve Jobs thread, where Adam posted a warning.[/QUOTE]

Just roll with it I guess ;).

#1552058Post 21 of 135

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Because RM came charging in deriding Steve Jobs, and as usual everyone had to respond and thus begun another altercation, in a thread about Jobs' passing. Which is kinda insensitive.

#1552061Post 22 of 135

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#1552068Post 23 of 135

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[QUOTE=feather;994159] as usual everyone had to respond and thus begun another altercation, in a thread about Jobs' passing. Which is kinda insensitive.[/QUOTE]

but he said he should burn in hell. which is completely wrong and we had a right to respond and demand he be banned for such insensitvity.

#1552071Post 24 of 135

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What pickle said + [ms]

#1552073Post 25 of 135

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[QUOTE=feather;994154]Presumably what Pickle means is nothing excuses you or gives you carte blanche to mistreat another forumer.[/QUOTE]

yes, thank you :)

#1552076Post 26 of 135

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Saying [url="http://www.mercuryserver.com/forums/djdb.php?id=5"]Sasha[/url], Digweed, Hernan, and Nick are the greatest DJs out there is also completely wrong. That doesn't mean I have the right to tell each of you how stupid I think you are for your opinions, and that I should ban anyone who believes in that nonsense.

There's a difference between having an opinion, and attacking a member for it.

#1552078Post 27 of 135

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who is attacking who on here. this is a repeat offender we are talking about. hijacking every thread. dont u guys get it. maybe a lock on yakitty yak is indead what we need on here then.

#1552080Post 28 of 135

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[QUOTE=res0nat0r;993629]Stop acting like a total jackass.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=runningman;993630]educate yourself Reso.. stop being such a god damn idiot[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=clintlove;993638]If I were standing in front of you, I'd slap the fuck out of your face.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=Caley Martin;993641]hah, I rarely chime in seriously around these here parts... but, Runningman, you're a fucking idiot. I would feel sorry for you and whatever bizzaro world you live in, but then that would be way too much than you actually deserve.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=thebanned1;993747]i seriously hope ur next on the ban list and like others on the forum i,m not going to say it in pms behind ur back

running u can be a really callous twat sometimes

r.i.p. mr jobs[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=ganjamo;993770]what a douche RM!

RIP Steve![/QUOTE] etc

#1552083Post 29 of 135

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[QUOTE=chuckc;994180]who is attacking who on here. this is a repeat offender we are talking about. hijacking every thread. dont u guys get it. maybe a lock on yakitty yak is indead what we need on here then.[/QUOTE]

welcome to a better Solution than [QUOTE=picklemonkey;994095] to shut down down [ms]. [/QUOTE] !!!

#1552086Post 30 of 135

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personally, I stand by what I said. that's my opinion of him and I was expressing it... "attacking" him would have been much worse. ;)

#1552088Post 31 of 135

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#1552098Post 32 of 135

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First of all this...

And second, wasn't there an ignore buttom to ignore what other member posts? Imo nothing is that serious to IGNORE a member but if for some of you it is, why don't you use it???

Fighting and bitching around within members is simply not cool and it's certainly anoying.. Specially when the members are redundant

#1552099Post 33 of 135

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[QUOTE=diegoff;994098]^ the same is hapening in the world... hope everything solves out.[/QUOTE]It will :)

#1552134Post 34 of 135

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[QUOTE=chuckc;994180]who is attacking who on here. this is a repeat offender we are talking about. hijacking every thread. dont u guys get it.[/QUOTE]

^ this

All of the posts you highlighted Adam were responses to someone else's behaviour in a thread dedicated to a guy who had just died that was derailed with hate. The malice wasn't there in the first place, as is generally the case.

Cure the illness, not the symptoms

#1552139Post 35 of 135

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I think the Ignore button is a great solution to shit like this. I've seen it used on other boards very effectively to keep the personal attacks and trolling minimized and it saves the admins from having to constantly policing the board for content with the exception of extreme cases.

#1552173Post 36 of 135

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What happened to the ignore button anyway?

#1552182Post 37 of 135

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^view a profile. it's in there

#1552185Post 38 of 135

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[url]http://www.mercuryserver.com/forums/profile.php?do=ignorelist[/url]

#1552186Post 39 of 135

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Got it, my ignore list is still there. I just thought there was an easier way to ignore.

#1552187Post 40 of 135

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